by Ellen Stumbo | Cerebral Palsy, Disability, Parenting
“I hate having cerebral palsy!” Just a few months ago, these were not uncommon words to hear from my middle daughter. But then one big thing happened for her and for me – last Thanksgiving we met new friends, twin sisters with cerebral palsy, and for the first...
by Ellen Stumbo | Disability, Down Syndrome, Faith, Parenting
When my daughter was born with Down syndrome, our friends came to visit us at the hospital. Our oldest daughter was staying with them and they had brought Ellie to meet her baby sister. Our friends brought their daughter along too, she was the same age as our oldest,...
by Ellen Stumbo | Cerebral Palsy, Disability
There is a Starbucks at my local Target. It makes me happy. Shopping and a cup of Spiced Caramel Cider are a perfect combination, although I think this particular drink goes perfectly with just about anything I do. I walked in with the mission to get my drink and...
by Ellen Stumbo | Confessions, Disability, Parenting
It happens to most of us as we parent kids with disabilities, we hear statements like, “You are amazing, I could never do it.” “It must be so hard.” Yes, it’s true, sometimes parenting kids with disabilities can be hard. We do have extra challenges that most parents...
by Ellen Stumbo | Disability, Parenting
Sometimes as parents of kids with disabilities, some of us feel like this: There is too much going on and we cannot focus. Parenting is hard. So hard. There is no manual and you just try to do the best you can. And if your child has a disability, hard can turn into...
by Ellen Stumbo | Confessions, Disability, Down Syndrome, Parenting
“Mom, I marry Luke.” Nichole said. “Luke from the show Jessie?” I said. “Yes. Luke my prince. That my house.” She said pointing at a house as we drove to school. “That’s going to be your house?” “Yes.” “Wait, you’re not going to live with mom and dad?” “No mom....